give up on the code to stop AsyncCommandManager. It fails with many scripts running, and its only done deep on exit code. It is a backgroud thread should not block exit and never did

OpenSim/Region/Application/Application.cs

@@ -79,7 +79,7 @@ namespace OpenSim
             else
             {
                 ServicePointManager.DefaultConnectionLimit = 12;
-                try { ServicePointManager.DnsRefreshTimeout = 120000; } //  just is case crazy some mono decides to have it infinity
+                try { ServicePointManager.DnsRefreshTimeout = 120000; } //  just is case some crazy mono decides to have it infinity
                 catch { }
             }
 

OpenSim/Region/ScriptEngine/Shared/Api/Implementation/AsyncCommandManager.cs

@@ -188,9 +188,11 @@ namespace OpenSim.Region.ScriptEngine.Shared.Api
             cmdHandlerThreadCycleSleepms = 100;
         }
 
+/*
         ~AsyncCommandManager()
         {
             // Shut down thread
+
             try
             {
                 lock (staticLock)
@@ -213,7 +215,7 @@ namespace OpenSim.Region.ScriptEngine.Shared.Api
             {
             }
         }
-
+*/
         /// <summary>
         /// Main loop for the manager thread
         /// </summary>